Life and Family

My Husband Told Me I Suck at Being a Housewife

Apparently, I need to step up my game.

Rachel Walsh
5 min readJan 24, 2022

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Photo by bruce mars on Unsplash

It’s been three weeks since I became unemployed, and it seems I’m having trouble adapting to my new role.

I had visions of what life as a full-time mom would look like. They involved schedules, routines, happy kids, a clean house, healthy meals, and plenty of time to work out.

I thought I’d be sipping iced coffees at the park with my girlfriends while the kids played and my dinner simmered in the crockpot.

Not skipping showers, wearing sweats all day, and making dinner at 9pm.

I foolishly thought that by eliminating my 9–5 job, I would have all the time in the world to be structured and organized and that all the pieces at home would just magically fall into place.

Oh, silly girl. It’s so much harder than I thought.

Not hard in an impossible way; hard in a this-is-going-to-take-a-lot-of-work-but-I-can-do-it way.

It’s going to take focus, dedication, and intentionality, but I know that I can make it work.

What are some ways I am missing the mark?

Poor Schedule

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Rachel Walsh

“The definition of greatness is to inspire the people next to you… It’s not something that lives and dies with one person.” — Kobe Bryant — I write to inspire.